Men Fall in love with his cousin left home three times refused to declare (map)
Sports Network (Chutian): Dongsheng Town, Shuangliu County, Wah Ming Yi young guy (a pseudonym), fall in love with his innocent cousin LU Li-flower (a pseudonym), was his family's strong opposition. After his confession to the cousin was cousin politely declined. Because this thing, feeling depressed the day before the third Wah Ming Yi away from home. This allows family members anxious round and round them to press for help, how to do?
them a "love letter" shocked cousin
this year, Wah Ming Yi, 21, has lived in a village with Er Gu, a very harmonious relationship between two people. Yi Hua Ming in the five-year-old when the parents work outside the home. In 2001, in order to take care of his nephew, Er Gu Yi Wah Ming decided to receive their own homes, together with her daughter in the village primary school. Brother and sister originally wanted to have take care of daily life in the study, did not think of a well-intentioned parents actually let Yi Hua Ming into a period of abnormal love, Yi Hua Ming in love with his cousin LU Li flower.
2006 fall, LU Li arrived in Chengdu flower drop out of school employees. Cousin that came to Chengdu, Yi Hua Ming excited. See cousin has grown into a slim Beautiful Lady, First love easy-Wah Ming's secret crush on the cousin feeling more and more. One night, Yi Hua Ming to write a "love letter", the Trustee forwarded to the LU Li flower. Unexpectedly, cousin of the move, immediately took the LU Li was shocked, she refused her cousin's love, and that two should not meet again.
blocked three abnormal love leave
day before yesterday, is the sister's birthday Wah Ming Yi, Yi Hua Ming and sister came to live with their parents Ma Temple community. At the birthday party, Yi Hua LU Li Ming saw a cousin, flowers, dinner, the Yi Hua Ming many times to show his good cousin, invited LU Li spent sitting beside him, his family has been blocked every possible way. Yi Wah Ming heart indignant, infuriated, he went aside, even in the lunch did not eat.
dinner, Yi Hua Ming continue to "struggle" LU Li flower, desperation, LU Li had spent hiding. See son, have gone too far, easy Everlight couple face to face to task Yi Hua Ming. Subsequently, Wah Ming Yi hurriedly stormed leave. Day, the police with the help of easy to find Everlight three to four hours, but could not find his son.
11 am yesterday, leaving one day Wah Ming silent night easy to go home, and saw that he opened the bedroom door, down to sleep in the bed. Son of such a situation look easy Everlight annoyed and distressed couple, "this is the third time he ran away from home." Speaking of his son this, my mother had a little red broken heart. She said that in 2007, his family persuaded easily to give up abnormal love Wah Ming, Yi Hua under runaway Ming shortness of breath, go out two or three days have not gone home. Last year in March, a person to take home to eat LU Li, Hua Ming has not called on to travel together easily, easily mistaken for Wah Ming engaged his cousin, he left home until the next morning and returned home.
parents to take care of little children we have a responsibility
"was actually his son's secret crush object cousin, which can be startled us, in a modern civilized society, such a thing is absolutely intolerable. "for sons of the" love ", easy Everlight couple was adamant: must sever relations cousin, cousins can not get married.
mothers have red reflection that, for that matter, as parents they should bear some responsibility, the son of a child, not properly care for and love her son. At her son into this section of abnormal love, as parents, they are very hard to accept, at her son day by day, depressed, heart is not taste. When seeking the views of many friends and family, to help Yi Hua Ming as soon as possible out of the "shadow", they will let Yi Hua Ming to learn a craft or work outside the home, so easy to gradually forget Wah Ming cousin, forget that a relationship.
Mental Health Center, Sichuan University, said Dr Li Bin, this is a case of bias in love. For the adolescent's emotion, lack of family love, no time to give them proper guidance, which leads to Yi Hua Ming strayed into "wrong" from a cousin who wish to seek "abnormal love." Dr. Li Bin said that close relatives can not marry, have become common sense, hope Yi Hua Ming to the correct understanding of their heart, establish a correct outlook on life.
man can not I have no way to know
deep love cousin about the issue, Yi Hua Ming The tears straight round and round.
Reporter: When did you start to like cousin LU Li spent?
easy: had a habit and cousin together, ignorant of love for me to create love cousin.
Reporter: What aspects of your favorite cousin?
easy: Zuiguai cousin is the girl in this world, has yet to find a better looking girls than the cousin.
note: this feeling will not be allowed secular, even if you're together, there will be many difficulties in the future you can imagine now, this continues there will not be a good result, you know?
Yi (sobs): All this I know, but I am helpless, I just like her.
this horrible woman will try to persuade him
Reporter: What do you think your feelings and Yi Hua Ming?
Lu: a child grow up together, only the feelings of cousins.
Reporter: Do you know Yi Hua Ming crush on you?
Lo: know, this really is terrible, I was immediately rejected, but also to persuade him not to meet, but he did not listen.
note: see Yi Hua Ming so obsessed with you, how would you do?
Lu: do not know how to do, but I will try to persuade him to give up and hope he can recover.
(According to "the Chengdu Evening News" report)
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against consanguineous marriage
"Marriage Law" Article VII expressly provides that " immediate blood relatives, and collateral consanguinity within three generations, "prohibited marriage. In consanguineous marriage, the couple both carry the same recessive disease gene is considerable, and easy to meet in offspring, and their offspring often appear dementia, deformed children and genetic disease death rate is also higher.
